Tag: choice

“Free Will Is An Illusion.”

“Free Will Is An Illusion.”

Sit quietly. Take in a deep breath. Pause. Exhale while counting to eight. And meditate on these five words. “Free will is an illusion.” Do you have the power to radically accept that free will is an illusion? The majority of us believe they have free will.  I have returned to FREE WILL, Sam Harris’ …

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Empowered or Selfish?

Empowered or Selfish?

The woman has come to terms with her nature. Finally, she said it out loud. She expressed herself to someone close to her. Sitting up straighter, she took in a deep breath and exhaled just as deeply: ‘It has to be worth my while to have a man in my life.’ ‘Wow! I’m loving that,’ …

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Have you tried to ‘fix’ another?

Have you tried to ‘fix’ another?

Something to ponder… How can anyone expect another to live a truthful life when they can’t be honest with themselves? Just because I choose to live authentically, openly and honestly, I can’t expect anyone else to do the same. Especially if it’s clear that they struggle to do so. Or choose not to. This would …

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A Lover Has No Choice

A Lover Has No Choice

“A lover knows only Humility; he has no choice.”   What a profound statement.   I heard it after digging out some chill-out music I’d last listened to more than six months ago.   Is it true, I wonder?   Selflessness. Does true selflessness exist?     A lover knows only humility, he has no …

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Could you walk away?

Could you walk away?

If you were given the means, the financial means, to go anywhere in the world for an entire year, and you had to leave immediately and not mention a thing about it to anyone, would you do it?   You would have to vanish without a trace and not communicate with anyone you know for …

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